Why Kenyan women are having a hard time finding love in the Diaspora

[MK254]

It's surprisingly some of wanawake wa Afrika wanalalamika sana kuhusu relationship and they all blame to men....when you're ambitious wanalalamika "he's too busy,he can't be around" and when you're low profile wanalalamika " he's too ordinary",next thing "he's too polite" "he's too talkative" etc ...and since you're looking for "American men" well, stay single,otherwise grow up! there is no perfect relationship.

Quite a challenge, if you read the article, they claim to only date Americans and are shunning African men, but in my opinion, any man can be what you want him to be.

 

[NairobiWalker]

It is a normal phenomena amongst women, they tend to under appreciate their men and feel foreigners are better.

 

[Iconoclastes]

Ndio nimesoma article, wanalalamika kukosa wanaume ughaibuni wakati wao wana sura na shape za kutisha?? Wanaume wa kenya wakitoka nje ya Kibera na kwenda ughaibuni wanaona maua kila sehemu, hadi wanashindwa kuchagua. Sasa kwanini asumbuke na "mwanaume" mwenzake wa Mathare?? Kwanza wanaume wa Kenya mnapokea kichapo toka kwa wake zenu, inadhihirisha jinsi gani wanawake wa Kenya ni "wanaume".

I am still single and looking around for a gal. Mind hooking me up with ur sister,Bulldog the dog?

 

[Anna Mosha]

Love is blind kijana. Mapenzi yako na "niki minaj" wako hayabadili ukweli kuwa wanawake wa kenya wana sura mbaya na shapa ya ajabu kama wanaume wa sudani kusini.

Hahahahahahahaha jaman mbavu zangu mie....

 

[Kambalanick]

Kenyan women are the most beautiful,sophisticated, intelligent. What a package!!

 

[xisnotx]

sio eti wamekoswa na upenzi, ni vile mi niko hawataki kumpenda mwingine.

sio kwa ubaya wenyezi wangu, na sio kwa shida zako zikujayo...

nitamwoa mmoja, yule msawa tena, na nitawawachia wale wengine.

mhidi lakini, ukimpata. ukimkora, naye mi nitakukora, nimgeushe awe mke wangu.

wenye wezi, yaani wenyezi, wazidi, wenye jezi, yaani wenjezi, yahidi. (and yes, i know, you didn't understand that. it's not for you to understand. umeniskia mke wangu???)

 

[MK254]

Ndio nimesoma article, wanalalamika kukosa wanaume ughaibuni wakati wao wana sura na shape za kutisha?? Wanaume wa kenya wakitoka nje ya Kibera na kwenda ughaibuni wanaona maua kila sehemu, hadi wanashindwa kuchagua. Sasa kwanini asumbuke na "mwanaume" mwenzake wa Mathare?? Kwanza wanaume wa Kenya mnapokea kichapo toka kwa wake zenu, inadhihirisha jinsi gani wanawake wa Kenya ni "wanaume".

Mwalimu Nyerere alikosea sana kusisitiza Watanzania kutumia Kiswahili na kuchukia Kingereza maana mnapata tabu sana kwa taarifa ambazo zimeandikwa kwa Kingereza. Yaani hata usome mara ngapi bado haujaelewa kinachosemwa hapa. Na hii ndio mojawapo inayowaponza kiuchumi.

 

[MK254]

It is a normal phenomena amongst women, they tend to under appreciate their men and feel foreigners are better.

True, even in Tanzania women always used to prefer jamaaz from Kenya, Congo and other countries.

 

[Zamazamani]

Jamani kwenye ukweli tuseme ukweli..mimi nimekaa sana Nairobi ...nimejaribu kutafuta flavours za kike lakini hakuna kabisa huku...yaani wanawake wa huku siyo wazuri ..na akiwa mzuri usoni basi yale maumbo ya kike ni zero kabisa...yaani mpaka leo sijamuona demu aliye kamilika kikekike kama wa kibongo kwa kweli!!!...na tabia zao wengi ni za kiumeume.....dah! najuta!!Huku kumpata demu beautiful and sexy sahau!

 

[MK254]

Jamani kwenye ukweli tuseme ukweli..mimi nimekaa sana Nairobi ...nimejaribu kutafuta flavours za kike lakini hakuna kabisa huku...yaani wanawake wa huku siyo wazuri ..na akiwa mzuri usoni basi yale maumbo ya kike ni zero kabisa...yaani mpaka leo sijamuona demu aliye kamilika kikekike kama wa kibongo kwa kweli!!!...na tabia zao wengi ni za kiumeume.....dah! najuta!!Huku kumpata demu beautiful and sexy sahau!

Kuwa mkweli, tatizo ni kwamba huwezani na assertiveness na sophistication ya madem wa ki-Nairobi, they can be very intimidating for an inferior guy.

Mademu ambao nimeona Bongo wapo kidogo kufikia mizuka ya wale Ki-Nairobi ni wale wakutoka Kilimanjaro, aisei nilikumbana nao Dar mjini na nilipenda sana.

Haya mengine yote unasema sijui eti umbo la kike ni jinsi tu ya kujifariji maana msomi yeyote anaelewa nchi zetu hazikuwepo kabla mzungu hajaja na hamna tofauti ila imaginary boundary. Nimekaa na Wasukuma na Wahaya ambapo hamna tofauti yao na Waluhya wakwetu. Wamaasai wa pande zote mbili hawana utofauti, vile vile Wajaluo na hata ukienda Pwani ya kwetu na Pwani ya kwenu hamna tofauti.

 

[Zamazamani]

Kuwa mkweli, tatizo ni kwamba huwezani na assertiveness na sophistication ya madem wa ki-Nairobi, they can be very intimidating for an inferior guy.

Mademu ambao nimeona Bongo wapo kidogo kufikia mizuka ya wale Ki-Nairobi ni wale wakutoka Kilimanjaro, aisei nilikumbana nao Dar mjini na nilipenda sana.

Haya mengine yote unasema sijui eti umbo la kike ni jinsi tu ya kujifariji maana msomi yeyote anaelewa nchi zetu hazikuwepo kabla mzungu hajaja na hamna tofauti ila imaginary boundary. Nimekaa na Wasukuma na Wahaya ambapo hamna tofauti yao na Waluhya wakwetu. Wamaasai wa pande zote mbili hawana utofauti, vile vile Wajaluo na hata ukienda Pwani ya kwetu na Pwani ya kwenu hamna tofauti.

Labda unajifariji tu lakini mi nipo hapa for 7 yrs now....hata hao wa kilimanjaro/Arusha sio wengi waliokamilika chini hadi juu...labda wawe wamechanganyika na makabila mengine..lakini siyo wale pure....wale pure wanafanana na wa Nai hasa kuanzia kiunoni hadi chini ndipo mambo yalikoharibika.

Maeneo hayo ni vigumu kumpata msichana umbo namba nane na sura ya kuvutia!!!huo ndiyo ukweli...mimi nina girl friend wa kikenya ana sura nzuri lakini kuanzia kiunoni ni majanga...

 

[MK254]

Labda unajifariji tu lakini mi nipo hapa for 7 yrs now....hata hao wa kilimanjaro/Arusha sio wengi waliokamilika chini hadi juu...labda wawe wamechanganyika na makabila mengine..lakini siyo wale pure....wale pure wanafanana na wa Nai hasa kuanzia kiunoni hadi chini ndipo mambo yalikoharibika...maeneo hayo ni vigumu kumpata msichana umbo namba nane na sura ya kuvutia!!!huo ndiyo ukweli...mimi nina girl friend wa kikenya ana sura nzuri lakini kuanzia kiunoni ni majanga...

Aidha itakua haujaonja darasa ya shule ama ulikua kilaza sana, nimekuambia hapakuwa na Tanzania, Uganda, Kenya n.k. kabla hajaja mzungu, hivyo hakuna vile itawezekana ukasema Mungu aliumba Watanzania vinginevyo zaidi ya Wakenya maana wote ni watu wamoja ambao mpaka uliwekwa na mzungu.

Mimi nime-date mademu wa tabaka mbali mabli kuanzia kwetu Kenya hadi mbali sana ndani ya mikoa tofauti ya Tanzania na pia Waganda. Tofauti ni tabia ila mengine yote wote sawa. Ninachofahamu mwanaume mwenye mapungufu ya nguvu za kiume hutumia vigezo vya ajabu ajabu ili kujifariji, mara anaangalia miguu, sura, urefu, ufupi n.k. Lakini ukiwa dume la kweli lenye uwezo wa kiume utajipata unafurahia urembo wa kila mwanamke.

Labda nikushauri, hebu katafute mbegu zinaitwa mlonge, mimi huzitumia sana na nakuhakikishia zinampa mwanaume nguvu sana. Zipo Nairobi na hata Dar es Salaam. Usione aibu, utafiti wa Kisayansi umebainisha ni mbegu muhimu sana kwa mwanaume na kuanzia siku utaanza kuzitumia utasahau kuwabagua wanawake kwa matabaka na wote watakua warembo kwa macho yako. Soma zaidi hapa.

[h=1]Super tea that boosts your love life: Scientists claim to have found aphrodisiac properties in Himalayan plant[/h]

• The Morigna, native to North African and the Himalayan mountains, is being hailed as a superfood
• The plant can be taken in tea, tablet or powder form and is thought to help the body recover from exercise and could also increase sex drive
  

By SOPHIE FREEMAN
PUBLISHED: 00:58 GMT, 19 April 2014 | UPDATED: 15:21 GMT, 19 April 2014

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If you want to improve your health while giving your sex life a boost, try a cup of moringa tea with your breakfast.

Moringa, or ‘miracle tree', is being hailed as a superfood that not only increases energy levels and boosts the immune system, but can also be an aphrodisiac.

Native to North Africa and the Himalayan mountains in northwestern India, the plant has traditionally been used to boost sexual desire and to treat male sexual disorders.

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The plant, which can be taken as a tea, or in tablet, powder or oil format, is said to help the body recover

A recent study in the International Journal of Pharmacy and Pharmaceutical Sciences found that it enhanced sexual behaviour in rats. It's also known to contain chemical compounds called saponins which have been shown in other studies to support libido and levels of the sex hormone testosterone.

Gram for gram, moringa has seven times the vitamin C found in oranges, four times the calcium of milk, four times the vitamin A of carrots, three times the potassium of bananas and three times the iron of spinach. Its tiny leaves are also high in protein, with twice the amount found in yoghurt.

The plant, which can be taken as a tea, or in tablet, powder or oil format, is said to help the body recover after exercise, and is also rich in zeatin, a plant hormone which has an anti-ageing effect on skin cells.

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Nutritionist Daniel Herman, founder of the Bio-Synergy nutrition brand, said: ‘Moringa has a number of different benefits for general wellbeing.

‘It's an anti-inflammatory – if you've just done the London Marathon, for example, it's a great product to take for niggles – and some studies suggest it can regulate blood sugar levels.

‘It can also boost the immune system – it's a rich source of antioxidants like Vitamin A and C, which can fight free radicals.

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The plant is native to the Himalayan mountians and is rich in vitamins, helping it boost the immune system

‘The aphrodisiac effect might be because it improves blood flow, which can certainly help men.'

Lorna Driver-Davies, a nutritionist for health product firm NutriCentre, said: ‘Moringa looks to be an exciting new food.

‘Good scientific research has shown it has antioxidant effects; it may work as an anti-inflammatory and may be used for liver support.'

It is thought to have been used by the ancient Greeks, Romans and Egyptians and is recommended for 300 health conditions in traditional ayurvedic medicine.

Mr Herman added: ‘Moringa has been around for years but there is suddenly a lot of interest in this from the scientific community.'

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[NairobiWalker]

True, even in Tanzania women always used to prefer jamaaz from Kenya, Congo and other countries.

Like you always hear Kenyan women pamper Nigerian men with praises hoping to find one with ridiculous claims like they are more romantic and know how to treat women, I visited Nigeria and I was shocked how Nigerian women have nothing good to say about their men. It's funny and interesting.

 

[demigod]

It is a normal phenomena amongst women, they tend to under appreciate their men and feel foreigners are better.

Its not true, Have you ever had a chance to ask a Tanzanian girl.. about their men...?
Hiyo mentality is being possessed by Kenyan women only.

 

[MK254]

Its not true, Have you ever had a chance to ask a Tanzanian girl.. about their men...?
Hiyo mentality is being possessed by Kenyan women only.

Man, Tanzania top class ladies date Kenyan men all the time and have low opinion on their male counterparts.

Labda wale wa uswazi ndio wamezoea kuwasifia nyie, lakini nenda kwenye corporate world ya Bongo utakuta sophisticated ladies ambao hawaishi kutupenda maana a Kenyan guy kwenye michezo ya classic romance huwa hatuchelewi.

 

[baro]

Man, Tanzania top class ladies date Kenyan men all the time and have low opinion on their male counterparts.
Labda wale wa uswazi ndio wamezoea kuwasifia nyie, lakini nenda kwenye corporate world ya Bongo utakuta sophisticated ladies ambao hawaishi kutupenda maana a Kenyan guy kwenye michezo ya classic romance huwa hatuchelewi.

Ha ha ha yaani demu wa kibongo ashoboke na mkenya

Haitatokea

 

[demigod]

Man, Tanzania top class ladies date Kenyan men all the time and have low opinion on their male counterparts.
Labda wale wa uswazi ndio wamezoea kuwasifia nyie, lakini nenda kwenye corporate world ya Bongo utakuta sophisticated ladies ambao hawaishi kutupenda maana a Kenyan guy kwenye michezo ya classic romance huwa hatuchelewi.

I personally have no appetite for your glutting lies when it comes about ROMANCE.

You people aren't even romantic creatures... to the extent ya kuvutia wasichana wa kibongo.

kenyan weman wasingekuwa watu wa kulaamika kila kukicha.
Labda utuambie kwamba wanawake wa kikenya wana ugly-looks, ndio sababu hamna time nao.
Hapo labda tungewaelewa.
Ukiachilia mbali wanaume wa kikuyu na luo pia kuwa na sura mbaya.

 

[MK254]

I personally have no appetite for your glutting lies when it comes about ROMANCE.

You people aren't even romantic creatures... to the extent ya kuvutia wasichana wa kibongo.

kenyan weman wasingekuwa watu wa kulaamika kila kukicha.
Labda utuambie kwamba wanawake wa kikenya wana ugly-looks, ndio sababu hamna time nao.
Hapo labda tungewaelewa.
Ukiachilia mbali wanaume wa kikuyu na luo pia kuwa na sura mbaya.

Wee baki hapo ukibisha wakati tunawachukua mademu wenu, fuatilia takwimu ndo utakoma. Wabongo kwa kweli romance hamna, mimi nilikua na demu Mbongo halafu hata kumshika mkono barabarani tukitembea inakua kama sinema, Wabongo wametukazia macho wakati kwetu jambo la kawaida tu.

Nikimpeleka kwenye mabeach halafu tunakiss sasa ndio usitake, inakua ndio movie kabisa. Hamjazoea kuyaona hayo. Halafu your girls are sex starved, hamuwapei ngoma sawa sawa, maana akikumbana na mizuka ya Kikenya haishi kusifia hadi unashangaa kwani kunani.

 

[demigod]

Man, Tanzania top class ladies date Kenyan men all the time and have low opinion on their male counterparts.
Labda wale wa uswazi ndio wamezoea kuwasifia nyie, lakini nenda kwenye corporate world ya Bongo utakuta sophisticated ladies ambao hawaishi kutupenda maana a Kenyan guy kwenye michezo ya classic romance huwa hatuchelewi.

Refer to the Bulldog post #10 .

Without periphrasis, kwa ujumla wake ninyi hamko poa kwenye idara hii.

You can't be a romantic, and still being beaten by your lady like a Dog.

 

[MK254]

Refer to the Bulldog post #10 .

Without periphrasis, kwa ujumla wake ninyi hamko poa kwenye idara hii.

You can't be a romantic, and still being beaten by your lady like a Dog.

It depends on what you understand about romance, like I said, you guys are naive, you must understand there are some men who get orgasm when slapped by a lady, they enjoy it.

Tayari niambie nikufunze mambo haya... romance 101 for Tanzania men. Kazi yenu kudunda wanawake ili kujifariji kwa mapungufu.