Tru love come once in a life time!!

[Da Womanizer]

Eiyer:

I see some truth in what you said above, at least in my life . Maana although I have dated several guys I have had only one true love, and NO I do not think its possible to find and/or love another as much in the near future.

You do not know that

 

[malale]

Mapenzi ya kweli ni kujarili kwa undani na umakini juu ya mtu flani ambaye umemwamini na kumpenda kupita wote.

 

[klorokwini]

Niliisoma mahali na ikanisaidia, natumaini itakupa mwanga kidogo:

Love is both an action and a feeling. The action of love generates a blissful feeling called by the same name. When the action stops, the blissful feeling is replaced with pain. There is a similar feeling called lust which may be confused with love. You need to decipher between the two in order to have a healthy heart. Every person is capable of great love (and its opposite, fear, which generates all painful emotions such as hate, greed and jealousy).

While there are many different ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (or even yourself), here is a general guide to loving.

Say it.
When you say the words "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it, make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.
Empathize.
Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well.
Love unconditionally.
If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.
Expect nothing in return.
That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.
Realize it can be lost.
If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love. Don't make an idol of the person you love. This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them.

what a good piece! cheers!

 

[Nemo]

You do not know that

Da Womanizer:
Trust me what I say I certainly know differently. Im no longer naive so now day I love with both my head and heart!!

 

[kamalaika]

what a good piece! cheers!

thanks

 

[Ntuya]

Mapenzi mapenzi, karne na karne hakuna mwenye formula halisi ya kufanya wanadamu wapate mapenzi yasiyo na pingamizi except God Almighty. Tumshirikishe katika yote ili tupunguze hizi trauma za malavidavi.

 

[Da Womanizer]

Da Womanizer:
Trust me what I say I certainly know differently. Im no longer naive so now day I love with both my head and heart!!

That is because of how you perceive things now but 5,6 or 10 years to come you might be looking at things in a completely different perspective. Thats why I insist, You do not know that

 

[Nemo]

That is because of how you perceive things now but 5,6 or 10 years to come you might be looking at things in a completely different perspective. Thats why I insist, You do not know that

Da Womanizer
You can insist as much as you want, but dont be blind to the fact that because this is my life, i am responsible for running it as I see fit. As per this reason I have a choice of whether or not foolishly love someone!! Besides how do u know if 10 years have not already passed since I had my true love!??

 

[Eiyer]

A person ambae amepewa moyo wa kupenda na Mwenyezi Mungu
hupenda, huvunjwa, hu-rise tena... on going circle...
Mi personally naona love ika happen kwako na mwenza wako
katika maturity stage... it is more wonderful for you enjoy,
unajua wapi not to cross the line na kutokana na past mistakes
you are more appreciative... My first love was a jerk!
i wouldn't want to believe or ona kua sababu he was my first hakuna kama yeye...
that will be completely WRONG...

Unaweza kuwa hujampenda kiukweli ila unakuwa mtegemezi wa hisia kwake lakini ukija ondoka kwenye tatizo ukawa huru ndo unaweza kujua nani ndie wa kweli kwako,utajua kutokaoa hisia zako kwake!

 

[Eiyer]

inakuwaje kama hatunaye tena duniani au kama naye nahisi true love kwa someelse, not you?

U dont have a choice find some1 else,but hataweza kuziba nafasi ile!

 

[Da Womanizer]

Da Womanizer
You can insist as much as you want, but dont be blind to the fact that because this is my life, i am responsible for running it as I see fit. As per this reason I have a choice of whether or not foolishly love someone!! Besides how do u know if 10 years have not already passed since I had my true love!??

Sorry Nemo if I sound like I am patronizing and Good luck.