Am I falling in love or is just a crush?

My advice just try to be close with him and try to show how do you feel and then take an opportunity to tell him the truth but you have to find a right place and in a right time.
Sio yuko busy na kazi we ndo wamwambia.
 
I'm 29 yrs old now. I have never been in any relationship, like seriou...

Nitakujibu kama mwanaume katika mazingira yangu ya asili.

Mwanamke mwenye vigezo vyangu akiwa anaonesha ananielewa hata kama nina mtu nitampa attention inayotakiwa na inawezekana hata tukawa wapenzi.

Asiye na vigezo nitafanya kama huyo jamaa anavyokufanyia kisha kuna siku nitakuita eneo la tukio, najua hauwezi kukataa, nakumega then kila mtu na njia yake.

Au najenga mazingira ujione wewe ndiyo mhitaji, usishangae ukajikuta unagharamia out zote mpaka lodge ukaja kulipia wewe.

By the way, hivi unajua hata ukiwa na urafiki na mtu ni uhusiano huo?
 
Personally i would advise you to keep yourself busy loving yourself and praying. In our eyes not everything is perfect. People nowdays take advantage of loyalty. Kuna men/women who prefer to hear more about i love you rather than saying if they feel the same or no. A real man don't brags around talking lies, don't get yourself into situations and illusion hoping for same response try to do something great to make make yourself potential in away falling in love with right people is real and not just a sided enforcement. It's better to chill love always finds its way. KEEP BEING YOU IT IS WORTH FULL FOR YOU TO DO NOW DON'T SHOUT OUT TO GET HIS ATTENTION IT WILL BE HUMILIATING IF HE IS TOTALLY CONTRARY WITH YOUR FEELINGS. RELAX. TAKE DEEP BREATH. ITS HARD BUT WORTHY THAN GETTING TORCHED FOR LOVING WRONG PERSON.
Thanks you
 
The problem is that you give your own answer without telling the man that you feel something about him, when you grow up you will know the important of asking what you want? Or express your feeling without fear anything. Next time when you meet with him just tell him what you feel about him. Then let him to give you the answer.
I think I will be humiliated. I have shown some actions which if he knows love, he might be able to understand. If he is into me as a man why did he jump into telling me that he is gonna marry while I don't even see his girl around?
 
I'm 29 yrs old now. I have never been in any relationship, like serious, sina boyfriend hadi sasa. Although I had several crushes over some men, but neither of them didn't work because they were just crushes. Here I am again facing another case. Kuna kijana nimetokea kumpenda jinsi alivyo tu, yaani I wish he can be more than a boyfriend nadhani naenda mbali kidogo. Kuna some coincidences zinatokea tunapokutana maana we work at the same place, to the extent that I think like he is mine. Kuna siku nilitamani kumwambia but I was so afraiding of speaking it out. Kwa jinsi alivyo is like he is single nilikua tu namsoma nikajitoa kumuuliza status yake. Akanambia ataoa hivi punde, I will never forget nililia sana usiku. Yaani niliumia wiki nzima, ni kama kuachwa nadhani. Up to now I'm trying to move on and the guy doesn't know that he has broken my heart. Siku zinazidi kwenda afu sioni dalili za yeye kuoa, but I'm trying to let him go. Japo kila nikifikiria naumia that's why najiuliza if it's just a crush or falling in love.. The man is good in keeping in touch with people in communication wise but unfortunately kwangu mimi ni kama may be I'm not his type although he is just a friend because he doesn't text me, sometimes he doesn't reply my texts, or even pick up my calls. Inauma lakini ndo hivo inabidi nimuache aende. . Ijapokuwa kuna wakati nikijisikia upweke naumia, lakini ndo hivo afu kuna wakati natamani nimshirikishe jambo hasa la kufurahisha then napotezea maana ndo hivo najua atachukulia poa. Yeye hunitafuta tu Pale akihitaji msaada wangu, otherwise he does not call or text. This makes me feel bad anyway he just doesn't know... Hakika moyo sukuma damu...
Mkuu kuna posti yako uliandika kuwa unatamani kuolewa na mzungu maana wabongo wamekutapeli sana. Vipi huyo unayemfukuzia ni mzungu?
 
I'm 29 yrs old now. I have never been in any relationship, like serious, sina boyfriend hadi sasa. Although I had several crushes over some men, but neither of them didn't work because they were just crushes. Here I am again facing another case. Kuna kijana nimetokea kumpenda jinsi alivyo tu, yaani I wish he can be more than a boyfriend nadhani naenda mbali kidogo. Kuna some coincidences zinatokea tunapokutana maana we work at the same place, to the extent that I think like he is mine. Kuna siku nilitamani kumwambia but I was so afraiding of speaking it out. Kwa jinsi alivyo is like he is single nilikua tu namsoma nikajitoa kumuuliza status yake. Akanambia ataoa hivi punde, I will never forget nililia sana usiku. Yaani niliumia wiki nzima, ni kama kuachwa nadhani. Up to now I'm trying to move on and the guy doesn't know that he has broken my heart. Siku zinazidi kwenda afu sioni dalili za yeye kuoa, but I'm trying to let him go. Japo kila nikifikiria naumia that's why najiuliza if it's just a crush or falling in love.. The man is good in keeping in touch with people in communication wise but unfortunately kwangu mimi ni kama may be I'm not his type although he is just a friend because he doesn't text me, sometimes he doesn't reply my texts, or even pick up my calls. Inauma lakini ndo hivo inabidi nimuache aende. . Ijapokuwa kuna wakati nikijisikia upweke naumia, lakini ndo hivo afu kuna wakati natamani nimshirikishe jambo hasa la kufurahisha then napotezea maana ndo hivo najua atachukulia poa. Yeye hunitafuta tu Pale akihitaji msaada wangu, otherwise he does not call or text. This makes me feel bad anyway he just doesn't know... Hakika moyo sukuma damu...
Utaliwa bure! Akili kumkichwa hivi mnashindwa nini kuwa na watu wanao wapenda badala ya kujishebedua kuwapenda mnaodhani mnawapenda...!

Be committed to those who love you and not those you love.
 
Nitakujibu kama mwanaume katika mazingira yangu ya asili.

Mwanamke mwenye vigezo vyangu akiwa anaonesha ananielewa hata kama nina mtu nitampa attention inayotakiwa na inawezekana hata tukawa wapenzi.

Asiye na vigezo nitafanya kama huyo jamaa anavyokufanyia kisha kuna siku nitakuita eneo la tukio, najua hauwezi kukataa, nakumega then kila mtu na njia yake.

Au najenga mazingira ujione wewe ndiyo mhitaji, usishangae ukajikuta unagharamia out zote mpaka lodge ukaja kulipia wewe.

By the way, hivi unajua hata ukiwa na urafiki na mtu ni uhusiano huo?
Very true
 
Nitakujibu kama mwanaume katika mazingira yangu ya asili.

Mwanamke mwenye vigezo vyangu akiwa anaonesha ananielewa hata kama nina mtu nitampa attention inayotakiwa na inawezekana hata tukawa wapenzi.

Asiye na vigezo nitafanya kama huyo jamaa anavyokufanyia kisha kuna siku nitakuita eneo la tukio, najua hauwezi kukataa, nakumega then kila mtu na njia yake.

Au najenga mazingira ujione wewe ndiyo mhitaji, usishangae ukajikuta unagharamia out zote mpaka lodge ukaja kulipia wewe.

By the way, hivi unajua hata ukiwa na urafiki na mtu ni uhusiano huo?
Ni ukweli unao umiza.
 

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