Strict parents create Liars

[Shining Light]

I feel like many people who grew up with strict parents tend to become more adept at lying and manipulation. These individuals can deceive you, and it's often difficult to identify or catch them in their lies.

They believe they can get away with anything if given the chance to speak, as they are usually skilled at talking and negotiating.

I think parents should ease up a bit when it comes to raising their kids, because strictness can sometimes create individuals who are adept at blackmail, manipulation, and putting their needs before others'.

 

[Shining Light]

miviga

 

[miviga]

I feel like many people who grew up with strict parents tend to become more adept at lying and manipulation. These individuals can deceive you, and it's often difficult to identify or catch them in their lies.

They believe they can get away with anything if given the chance to speak, as they are usually skilled at talking and negotiating.

I think parents should ease up a bit when it comes to raising their kids, because strictness can sometimes create individuals who are adept at blackmail, manipulation, and putting their needs before others'.

When I read this, it was like you are describing someone whom I know, she applies manipulation very subtly and cleverly to the point that one blink of the eyes , you miss it.
Actually she got me during the early stages but now i can calculate every moves.

But to me I think some people by nature are manipulative and pathological liers, that parents are solely to blame, how do you see that?

 

[Shining Light]

When I read this, it was like you are describing someone whom I know, she applies manipulation very subtly and cleverly to the point that one blink of the eyes , you miss it.
Actually she got me during the early stages but now i can calculate every moves.

But to me I think some people by nature are manipulative and pathological liers, that parents are solely to blame, how do you see that?

You have to see it to be a manipulator, monsters are created not being born that way

 

[covid 19]

I feel like many people who grew up with strict parents tend to become more adept at lying and manipulation. These individuals can deceive you, and it's often difficult to identify or catch them in their lies.

They believe they can get away with anything if given the chance to speak, as they are usually skilled at talking and negotiating.

I think parents should ease up a bit when it comes to raising their kids, because strictness can sometimes create individuals who are adept at blackmail, manipulation, and putting their needs before others'.

True very true indeed!

 

[de Gunner]

I feel like many people who grew up with strict parents tend to become more adept at lying and manipulation. These individuals can deceive you, and it's often difficult to identify or catch them in their lies.

They believe they can get away with anything if given the chance to speak, as they are usually skilled at talking and negotiating.

I think parents should ease up a bit when it comes to raising their kids, because strictness can sometimes create individuals who are adept at blackmail, manipulation, and putting their needs before others'.

Is it not the other way around? Strict parents make their kids more reserved!

 

[Shining Light]

True very true indeed!

What would you suggest?

 

[Shining Light]

Is it not the other way around? Strict parents make their kids more reserved!

huo ni uwongo, when parents are less strict makes communication esier, so it's not easy to lie or the need to manipulate

 

[Mama Mwana]

mambo ya vingereza msitusumbue na wazazi wenu wakali.

 

[de Gunner]

huo ni uwongo, when parents are less strict makes communication esier, so it's not easy to lie or the need to manipulate

My parents were so strict mbona naona hao waliokuwa hawabaniwi ndo vichwa vibovu.? Mtoto anapokuwa na uhuru ndo anaweza kufanya chochote na hata kuwa na discipline kwa wengine

 

[Forest Hill]

mambo ya vingereza msitusumbue na wazazi wenu wakali.

Anasema mwanao naa akizingua usimchekee tia fimbo nyingi,kulea watoto kwa kudekeza kunafanya wanakua wahongo wahongo

 

[covid 19]

What would you suggest?

Parents should balance discipline with fostering honesty and empathy to mitigate these negative outcomes.

 

[covid 19]

What would you suggest?

Parents should balance discipline with fostering honesty and empathy to mitigate these negative outcomes.

 

[miviga]

You have to see it to be a manipulator, monsters are created not being born that way

No, you must not ignore the contribution of nature on child’s development

 

[Shining Light]

Anasema mwanao naa akizingua usimchekee tia fimbo nyingi,kulea watoto kwa kudekeza kunafanya wanakua wahongo wahongo

Hehehe mtoto anaogopa adabu atakudanganya tu na atahakikisha atafanya chochote usimkamate kwenye uwongo wake.

 

[Shining Light]

No, you must not ignore the contribution of nature on child’s development

sometimes a child can be so secretive for you to understand the issues she, or He is going through, so it's not about ignoring but detaching yourself with the child since the child will be scared of u

 

[Shining Light]

My parents were so strict mbona naona hao waliokuwa hawabaniwi ndo vichwa vibovu.? Mtoto anapokuwa na uhuru ndo anaweza kufanya chochote na hata kuwa na discipline kwa wengine

Hii ni debate it could be true or not

 

[de Gunner]

Hii ni debate it could be true or not

Starting from you, were your parents strict?

 

[Shining Light]

Starting from you, were your parents strict?

Been raised with multiple guardians can really explain it

 

[de Gunner]

Been raised with multiple guardians can really explain it

OK then, with all guardians did any of them stop you from doing the things you like even if it was not morally okay?