How to handle rejection.(When you are in love with someone and they,after a short while dating you,fall for someone that they feel they need to settle with)🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Remember I'm not an expert so this is my analysis from observation and experience. Anyone with a different view will share.🙏🙏
1. Understand that you dont own anyone. Even when you are with someone they still retain thier individuality.
Each person has a right to change or reverse his/her decision anytime. Being in a relationship for some years does not necessarily mean that the relationship will at some point lead to marriage.
People are never committed to you as a person in the relationship when someone leaves he/she is simply breaking that commitment to the relationship if he/she was committed in the first place.
You cannot bully people into staying with you when they see you as a closed chapter. It wont end well. Learn to let go.
The only people that are guaranteed to stay with you forever are your parents,children and siblings. Even if your mom hates you shed still be your mom.
2. Realise that people come into our lives for different reasons. It's not always reasons wed love but it's for a reason anyways. Know the signs as some people dont necessarily communicate with words but with actions.
Protect your heart and have a room.for disappointments from the word go. You can fight,I'm not saying easily give up,but when you know you know.🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
3. Some people will come in your life for a short time simply to help you find yourself. You know most of the time after the breakup we give ourselves time to reflect and realize who we actually are in the process.
This helps a lot because often after finding yourself or who you are and what you want you make better and informed decisions. So your next relationship will be a little mature.
3. Some people will stay long and leave to marry someone else. Its painful as we invest a lot in such relationships especially emotions.
Painful as it is,dont miss the lesson. It might be that you were meant to have a full understanding of relationships or simply learn something about life.
Dont make the breakup more terrible by being a psycho it will only hurt you more. Accept that its happening to you and find someone to talk to.
4. Some people were just seasonal. No lesson. They just were passing. You were on thier way they had to make a pause and then leave.
You can try the "clear your intention from the word go type of communication" people are only honest when they want to be honest not because you need assurance.🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Big question: can you really protect your heart from heartaches?
OR
Should we just be prepared and know that where there is love there is pain?
Let's talk.....❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Remember I'm not an expert so this is my analysis from observation and experience. Anyone with a different view will share.🙏🙏
1. Understand that you dont own anyone. Even when you are with someone they still retain thier individuality.
Each person has a right to change or reverse his/her decision anytime. Being in a relationship for some years does not necessarily mean that the relationship will at some point lead to marriage.
People are never committed to you as a person in the relationship when someone leaves he/she is simply breaking that commitment to the relationship if he/she was committed in the first place.
You cannot bully people into staying with you when they see you as a closed chapter. It wont end well. Learn to let go.
The only people that are guaranteed to stay with you forever are your parents,children and siblings. Even if your mom hates you shed still be your mom.
2. Realise that people come into our lives for different reasons. It's not always reasons wed love but it's for a reason anyways. Know the signs as some people dont necessarily communicate with words but with actions.
Protect your heart and have a room.for disappointments from the word go. You can fight,I'm not saying easily give up,but when you know you know.🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
3. Some people will come in your life for a short time simply to help you find yourself. You know most of the time after the breakup we give ourselves time to reflect and realize who we actually are in the process.
This helps a lot because often after finding yourself or who you are and what you want you make better and informed decisions. So your next relationship will be a little mature.
3. Some people will stay long and leave to marry someone else. Its painful as we invest a lot in such relationships especially emotions.
Painful as it is,dont miss the lesson. It might be that you were meant to have a full understanding of relationships or simply learn something about life.
Dont make the breakup more terrible by being a psycho it will only hurt you more. Accept that its happening to you and find someone to talk to.
4. Some people were just seasonal. No lesson. They just were passing. You were on thier way they had to make a pause and then leave.
You can try the "clear your intention from the word go type of communication" people are only honest when they want to be honest not because you need assurance.🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Big question: can you really protect your heart from heartaches?
OR
Should we just be prepared and know that where there is love there is pain?
Let's talk.....❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
