Cheating is almost synonymous to men, not because women do not cheat, but because it is the men who often get caught. So why is it so hard to catch women cheating?
The radar is always down
Women know that their men are capable of cheating. They are always on the lookout for any signs of cheating because to them it a matter of when, rather than if. They know the tell-tale signs of cheating so they avoid them.
Most men on the other hand do not believe their women are capable of cheating. This sort of trust in itself makes men blind to the signs that their women could be cheating. It does not help that most women as seasoned liars.
Women are sleek
After the devil, you ought to be very afraid of women because those creatures are extremely sleek. Not only are they meticulous planners, but they also leave all bases covered and take no prisoners.
If you want to follow a cheating trail, you will get lost somewhere in the middle or give up altogether.
No change in behaviour
When men cheat, they change their behaviours or patterns. They might come home later, they might ignore their wives, they may have passwords on their phone where none previously existed, the number of business meetings might suddenly increase.
Women, being the observatory creatures that they are, notice even the slightest changes in the routine and this makes it easy for them to catch their men cheating. Women can come straight from cheating to your everyday wife without missing a beat.
Women cheat in plain sight
Most women schedule their cheating so that it falls into their daily activities. They cheat in plain sight, doing the things they do every day but managing to sneak it cheating somewhere in there. They could cheat on their way to the dentist. Or over lunch break at work. Or when they should be at the salon.
You will hardly notice if something is amiss because men by their very nature hardly pay attention to detail. Secondly, there isn’t much change to notice to begin with. All this makes their cheating so hard to detect.
Too much to lose
Often men get forgiven when they cheat on their partners. But most men find being cheated on such a blow to their egos, and hardly forgive their women when they cheat. When women cheat, the know if it goes wrong, they could lose their marriage or relationships.
They have to take extra care because there is no room for being sloppy. Men on the other hand get sloppy after sometime and make mistakes that lead to their getting caught - forgetting hotel receipts, not deleting telling messages etc. Not women.
Fine memory
Unless men who might be asked where they were on Tuesday and give a different answer a week down the line, women have good memories. You have to have a good memory in order to lie effectively.
Women are more methodical
Most men cheat on a whim, women take time to plan their cheating down to the last detail. This is because they know they have to take time to clean the crime scene, and they have to factor in that too.
No guilt
Men look guilty once they have cheated, women on the other hand do not. When women cheat, they often feel like they are justified to do it, and it is well within their rights to. Most cheating from women is usually reactionary – they so it to counter what the men said or did. Women have also been found to be more likely to revenge cheat.
Do not kiss and tell
When a man cheats, usually all his close friends know about his escapades. It is hard to keep cheating secret once it is out in the public domain because one day it might juts slip out from one of his friends. Women keep their cheating for themselves and that makes it so hard to be caught.
The radar is always down
Women know that their men are capable of cheating. They are always on the lookout for any signs of cheating because to them it a matter of when, rather than if. They know the tell-tale signs of cheating so they avoid them.
Most men on the other hand do not believe their women are capable of cheating. This sort of trust in itself makes men blind to the signs that their women could be cheating. It does not help that most women as seasoned liars.
Women are sleek
After the devil, you ought to be very afraid of women because those creatures are extremely sleek. Not only are they meticulous planners, but they also leave all bases covered and take no prisoners.
If you want to follow a cheating trail, you will get lost somewhere in the middle or give up altogether.
No change in behaviour
When men cheat, they change their behaviours or patterns. They might come home later, they might ignore their wives, they may have passwords on their phone where none previously existed, the number of business meetings might suddenly increase.
Women, being the observatory creatures that they are, notice even the slightest changes in the routine and this makes it easy for them to catch their men cheating. Women can come straight from cheating to your everyday wife without missing a beat.
Women cheat in plain sight
Most women schedule their cheating so that it falls into their daily activities. They cheat in plain sight, doing the things they do every day but managing to sneak it cheating somewhere in there. They could cheat on their way to the dentist. Or over lunch break at work. Or when they should be at the salon.
You will hardly notice if something is amiss because men by their very nature hardly pay attention to detail. Secondly, there isn’t much change to notice to begin with. All this makes their cheating so hard to detect.
Too much to lose
Often men get forgiven when they cheat on their partners. But most men find being cheated on such a blow to their egos, and hardly forgive their women when they cheat. When women cheat, the know if it goes wrong, they could lose their marriage or relationships.
They have to take extra care because there is no room for being sloppy. Men on the other hand get sloppy after sometime and make mistakes that lead to their getting caught - forgetting hotel receipts, not deleting telling messages etc. Not women.
Fine memory
Unless men who might be asked where they were on Tuesday and give a different answer a week down the line, women have good memories. You have to have a good memory in order to lie effectively.
Women are more methodical
Most men cheat on a whim, women take time to plan their cheating down to the last detail. This is because they know they have to take time to clean the crime scene, and they have to factor in that too.
No guilt
Men look guilty once they have cheated, women on the other hand do not. When women cheat, they often feel like they are justified to do it, and it is well within their rights to. Most cheating from women is usually reactionary – they so it to counter what the men said or did. Women have also been found to be more likely to revenge cheat.
Do not kiss and tell
When a man cheats, usually all his close friends know about his escapades. It is hard to keep cheating secret once it is out in the public domain because one day it might juts slip out from one of his friends. Women keep their cheating for themselves and that makes it so hard to be caught.
